All women crave alpha traits: confidence, leadership, value—broken ones too. Unbroken women same; hypergamy rules. Blue pill man—nice, accommodating—loses regardless. Top percent males snag quality partners. Saying “women broken, no effort” lazy cop-out. Even perfect market, betas bottom. Dating success demands climbing: fitness, game, status. Whine or win? Most choose whine. Alpha mindset attracts; victimhood repels. Broken scene tests resolve. Grind beats gripes.